So those of you who have read my blog for a long time (meaning: before baby) know that my two dogs, Blanco and Tex, have been my "babies" for a while. I know some of you were leery about how bringing a real baby into the mix would change our "family" dynamic.
Karmyn commented on my post yesterday and asked how the dogs reacted when we brought Zane home.
My first thought was. . .I don't really remember. It was 1:30AM (remember, we had the munchkin at a birthing center and went home 5 hours after the birth) and I was too delerious/elated/exhausted/adrenalinized to register much of anything. But once my memory started to serve again, I remember that the dogs kept a respectful distance but were kindly curious.
Tex immediately adopted the "Nana" from Peter Pan role, running to get us if the baby was starting to stir or fuss in another room. Watching us closely to make sure we were taking care of "his" baby adequately. Just watching the baby for hours in general. Then he realized that Zane is very tasty so he spends his "quality time" with the baby licking (or trying to lick) his face, hands, and feet.
Blanco has been somewhat aloof from the beginning, not wanting much to do with the new bundle of joy. But lately he's been walking up to Zane more to get a closer look and to sniff him out. Just today, while I was in the shower and Zane was in his bouncer, I noticed that Blanco was spending a lot of time by his side and then running in and out of the bathroom. Right before I finished my shower, I saw that he had brought a toy to Zane (a really nasty thing, by the way, but the dogs' favorite!) and placed it on the bouncer next to him. I told him to get his toy and get it away from Zane (yes, he complied. Yes, Blanco IS smarter than a fifth-grader) because YUCK who wanted doggie germs spreading all over my baby.
What I didn't see until I was out of the shower was that Blanco had brought Zane SEVERAL toys and placed them in his bouncer next to him. He was trying to entertain the little fellow while I was disposed. And he was sharing. Very sweet. Call me--he can babysit. Real cheap.
While they are not perfect (case in point: the windowsills they keep trying to chew on in the study, barking and waking up the baby), our dogs have adjusted to life with baby rather well. They've been exiled from the couches (finally) and don't get as much attention as they used to, but at least I remember to feed and pet them at least a little bit every day.
So while the dogs are in no way my "babies" any more (funny how I didn't think it would happen but it totally did the INSTANT we had Zane--Karmyn, you totally called that one!!!) they are still really important members of the family. And they are taking some ownership of their little guy, who will in turn pull their ears and tails and torment them incessantly in the coming years. I don't know if they are ready for that. . . .me, either. . .guess that's why you give birth to a helpless infant who grows with you as you prepare for toddlerhood.
Gulp. Did I say toddler? I can't even imagine my little guy sitting up on his own but it's coming sooner than I think!!!
So that's my post on the dogs for the day. Yay, dogs. I heart you. Maybe you'll get an extra long walk tonight.
Here they are on "baby watch" as Z and I play on the floor. .don't they look worn out after all those late-night feedings???
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8 comments:
Aw that is just too cute that he was bringing him toys! Glad they are all getting on so well :)
So sweet. I love your dogs. Z couldn't have better company.
That's the sweetest thing - Zane bringing toys for the baby!!!
My dogs reacted similarly with both my kids. However, it was my cats who freaked. They totally ignored my son, but when I brought Buttercup home, the cats cried and yowled and tried to get in between me and the baby (it was like, "What were you thinking, mom? Bringing home ANOTHER one?). The behavior only lasted a few days and then they got over it.
That is so sweet bringing Zane toys and taking care of him.
A couple of things... I've read that one of the reasons that so many people are getting sick as adults is because as children their parents were ultra clean freaks. Some doctors suggest that a little dirt and some germs at an early age helps develop immunities.
I have a feeling that way back when, I suggested that the dogs would become more like your dogs than you babies once the Zane (although he wasn't called Zane back then) arrived.
I don't think it's anything to feel bad about. Don't forget, event the youngest child is no longer the baby once the new baby comes home, that's just the way it is.
Tex and Blanco will probably be Zane's best friends for the first part of his life. I remember my dad's dog that he had when I was born...it was my faithful companion...and my most trusted guardian.
I enjoyed the part about the dog bringing the toys.
You know the three will soon be inseparable. Z will give them more attention then they ever thought possible.
GS: We are so thankful! It could have been awful!!!
Stiggs: We are lucky. You can still steal Blanco if you want, though
Karmyn: Good to know we can love our pets and our kids and they can love each other, too
ChrisB: I was shocked. Very cute
WT: I should just give up and start loving germs. There is no fighting them in our house.
CC: I can't wait for them all to be buddies
Pamela: Z will give them more attention than they ever wanted I'm sure tormenting them as little tykes do!!!
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